6 Responses to “Q : Getting Physical?”

1. Sahil Jain Posted: Mar 16th, 2008 at 7:14 am

   1 I was in a long distance relationship for a couple of years during my undergrad and it works. There are days you want be physical with your love and there are days life keeps you busy. I bet the first case is just 10% of the time. Don’t spoil the 90% because of it. A relationship is secure when you think you are secured. It seems you are. Trust me there will be one day when both of you will feel like letting go of all inhibitions. It will come. Wait wait wait.

2. BilloRani Posted: Mar 16th, 2008 at 12:01 pm

   2 I agree with what poorapagal said, you are very young and also at an age when what others do seems to be okay. What you have to be sure about is how very very sure you are about yourselves : are you both committed to each other no matter what? are you both ready to remain friends and more, for the rest of your lives? remember, from your age till about age 50 or 60,, is a long long way my dear; one must be sure of so many things, as far as is possible before thinking about the physical thing, the phsical part in a relationship is a small part,, the rest of the things matter most! Sometimes people are so eager and excited thinking of the physical part in a relationship that they overlook a lot of more important points such as how compatible they are otherwise, and since you both dont meet, its not easy to gauge, so my advice would be to wait! You both have your whole lives to get to the physical part! I would suggest one way of testing yourselves is to stop talking to each other for a short while, like for a couple of weeks. Totally not talk at all, no chat, no phone calls,nothing! Then see what happens and how you both feel! If both of you feel that you miss each other terribly and cannot live without one another, then your love is real, BUT please still wait for the physical thing until you are married. It has more meaning then! All the best! You asked and I gave my two cents worth!

3. Saanj Posted: Mar 16th, 2008 at 12:41 pm

   3 Hey there, From your age I would say you must be at am age when the physical aspect of a relationship makes you curious about it. I would advice you to go slow now as it is a wonderful thing to share with someone you love, but rushing into it, may make you regret you gave it away soon when you meet the person you want to spend all your life with. As for the relationship you should give it some more time as you are too young to think of settling down.You may want t look at life a bit, start a career etc. So jumping into a physical relationship may not be a wise thing to do. No doubt a physical aspect does bind a relationship more but there is another aspect to it. Responsibility.Would you consider yourself old enough to take on the responsibilities that come with it, fears of things going wrong, unwanted pregnancy, some diseases, etc…. so hmmm i would say wait & definitely when your truly in love, the wait makes it more fun & exciting

4. crishlovek Posted: Mar 16th, 2008 at 1:08 pm

   4 i think that physical relation ship is most requirement of you person man /woman but this matter between both.

5. Misty Posted: Mar 17th, 2008 at 11:15 pm

   5 i agree with saanj, first let ur heart connect, take things slowly. If your love is strong and ur partner has respect and love for u, will surely wait for the right time, aor dooriyan toh jagah ki hoti hain dil toh hamesha paas hote hain.

6. Jabubhai Posted: Mar 18th, 2008 at 12:24 am

   6 at your age these infactuation may be attract you towards the physical relationship but you wait for the right time and first of all build your relationship strong and understable. Pehle aap khud 2. and being a muslim girl you have to be more careful I mean mazhab ke lihaaz se to ye galat hi hoga