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Age:: 19-25
Gender:: Female
Ethnicity:: Pakistani / Indian
I have come through this statement a lot of times that “Love is all about giving”
What if I love somebody & care a lot for him, & I don’t miss even a single opportunity to show him my love, shalln’t I expect him to show the same love & care in return?
For example, if my fiance doesn’t call or text me for a long time in a day, even when he is free the whole day & didn’t have any work to do, I keep waiting & atlast I become upset. I know that he loves me, but at the same time I want him to show it to me.
Does it mean that if I’m giving love, I want love in return? & if it’s so, does it make my love untrue?
Am I selfish? Or do I want his attention?
I don’t understand my own feeling.
Please advice.
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PooraPagal’s answer
Well I don’t think there is anything wrong in expecting a call out of the blue or without any special reason. And no you are not being selfish, you are just being you. You are just being someone who is in love and sees it in a totally different light. What he might be doing is thinking about his work, and not having the same “look” on the relationship, even though he might love you beyond any boundries..
So relax and see if you are “expecting” too much out of a lovely relationship, because sometimes relationships start going sour when either one person starts being too pushy or “unfair” but in your case, it seems like you are in love and just want the same feelings back. Remember guys behave differently in love than girls, so give it some time and create lovely situations that make you be together more and more so he gets to SEE what you are like mindwise 
